If you came of age in the ’90s, then you probably learned about these seven erogenous zones for women from Monica, the character from the hit TV series F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Keep reading to learn more about them.
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7 Erogenous Zones for Women | Know What You’re Touching
Her ears are one of the first erogenous zones you can play with.
Our ears contain a large number of sensory receptors. This makes them very sensitive to touch.
Playing with your partner’s ears will definitely intensify the pleasure of sex.
Before you start nibbling on her ears, remember that it’s very important to set the mood. You can start by breathing lightly on her ear, tracing the C outline with your fingers, or even whispering to her.
What’s important is to stimulate the ears properly. Otherwise, what should’ve lead to sexual arousal might just cause mood-killing giggles and tickles.
No matter how long you two have been together, kissing will always be a classic way to express your intimacy to each other.
Our lips contain hundreds more nerve endings than our fingers do. Plus, they’re always exposed.
This makes them one of the most accessible female erogenous zones.
However, before diving in for a hot, steamy kiss, make sure to set the mood. Trace the outline of her back, nape of her neck, or ears.
While leaning in for a kiss, make sure the warmth of your breath touches her lips. Even something as light as your breath can be very arousing to an area as sensitive as the lips.
Tip: As you two are making out, remember to keep your lips relaxed and to move your mouth in a controlled manner. The term “sucking face” doesn’t really work past high school.
When playing with her neck, make sure to explore all of it. One mistake many people make is focusing too much on the sides of the neck.
While it is a sensitive and accessible spot, you shouldn’t ignore the other parts of her neck and her collarbone. For example, the back of the neck is very sensitive, yet often remains unexplored.
What you can do is hold her from behind, massage her, and then lightly breathe on the back of her neck. Afterward, you can start kissing all the way to the front until you two are face to face.
A lot of men go crazy for breasts. In fact, they sometimes go too crazy, to the point that the experience becomes painful rather than sensual.
While playing with her breasts, make sure to read how she reacts to your actions. Unless she wants you to, don’t grope her breasts like you’re trying to rip them off.
Instead, gradually build excitement by gently fondling and sucking on them.
Once she’s gotten accustomed to the sensation, you can start to be more aggressive. But don’t forget that you still need to read her reactions.
Remember: we want to make the experience as intimate and pleasurable as possible. Groping the breasts like you’re kneading tough dough is not what most women want.
While the butt is a very sensual area, make sure to ask for her consent before you start stimulating it. Not every girl is comfortable with anal stimulation. But if she is, then gentle fondle her and watch for her cues.
You can start by kissing the back of her neck then tracing your way down to the top of her bum. Once you’re there, tease her a little bit with gentle kisses and warm breaths, gradually separating the cheeks and exciting her with your mouth.
Once you’ve stimulated her properly, you can start licking the area as much as you want.
Tip: Do not blow directly into her anus or vagina as if you’re blowing up a balloon. Not only is it unsexy, but it is dangerous.
6. Inner Thighs
Don’t make the mistake of diving straight for her vagina. Instead of a muffled moan, she might give you a shriek of shock.
Luckily, that’s where the inner thighs come in. Trace her thighs with your lips, fingers, breath, or basically anything you want.
Read her reactions and you’ll know what works and what doesn’t.
The vagina is very sensitive and should be one of the last places you play with.
As we stated earlier, don’t immediately push your way into her vagina. It’s a very sensitive part that needs proper stimulation and lubrication before penetration.
Before putting your penis in her vagina, it’s a good idea to warm her up with oral sex. Lightly place your tongue on her clitoris then start to move your tongue around that spot.
One great trick to try is spelling out random words on her clit using your tongue. You can spell out any word that pops into your mind.
Similarly, you can opt to trace the alphabet. You want to use smooth consistent stokes.
Breaking your pattern or being unpredictable with your movements will delay her orgasm and may even frustrate your partner. The only things you need to think about are “slower”, “faster”, “right there”, and “don’t stop.”
It may be helpful to prop your partner’s hips up with a pillow. This will ease the strain on your jaw and neck.
Act like you are enjoying what you are doing, moan, devour her like it may be the last time you get the chance. If you aren’t enjoying yourself, your partner will pick up on it and the mood will be ruined.
These are just some of the best erogenous zones for women. Don’t be afraid to explore the different parts of your partner’s body: her ears, mouth and lips, belly button, feet and toes, abdomen, breasts and nipples and areola, neck, thighs, knees—every single part.
Also, don’t ever skip out on foreplay no matter how hard and horny you are. Keep in mind how delicate and fragile a woman’s body parts are.
Forcing your way into her body might seem exciting for you, but it will ruin any hope of a good experience for her. Consent is key — and even so, put in the time and effort to make it a positive sexual experience.
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