Looking for tips on how to spice things up in the bedroom during the cold months? Save your sex life from the freeze this winter by reading this naughty list.
In this article:
- Feel the Cold Out First, Then Go in Hot
- Surprise Her with Flowers During Winter
- Turn Your Man-Cave into a Sex Nest
- The Right Drinks Can Warm the Right Parts
- Get Her Blood Racing with Good Food
- Hot Massage Oil Is Your Friend
- Bring Out the Warming Lube
- Don’t Spare the Luxury Underwear
- Winter Sex Is Better with Socks
- Play with Fire
- Let the Sunshine In
- Close Quarters, All Heat
- Spoon Her
- Keep It Steamy in the Shower
- Make Use of Your Morning Wood
- Try Hot Tub Sex
- Do It on Top of the Washer
- Have Quickies with Your Clothes On
- Take Her Away on a Vacation
How to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom for a Hot Winter: 19 Ways
1. Feel the Cold Out First, Then Go in Hot
When it’s wintertime, it’s easy to stay cooped up indoors. Go take a walk outdoors and don’t cancel your date nights because of the cold.
Not only will this be good for your relationship, but experiencing the low temperatures outside will prep you for the heat once you go indoors. Once you’ve locked the doors, heat up by going naked and making love.
2. Surprise Her with Flowers During Winter
A romantic gesture done right in the cold can amount to a sizzling payback when you’re all alone. Give her flowers in the season when she least expects it, and you might get some hot reward in the bedroom later on.
3. Turn Your Man-Cave into a Sex Nest
It takes two to have sex but most of the time this is not obvious to men when they decorate their bedroom. You have to buy the nice sheets and get those incense sticks to change the sock-like smell in your room and make it conducive for love-making.
You can also make a date out of shopping for the linens and the decorations. Doing this will ensure you’re setting things up the way she likes it and serve as a guarantee to spice things up in the bedroom.
4. The Right Drinks Can Warm the Right Parts
It’s hard heating up a cold body without some help so break out your best wine or brandy.
You can even make mulled wine. Here’s how:
- Take a bottle of your usual red.
- Add slices of lemon and orange, spices like cloves, star anise, and cinnamon sticks.
- Warm them up in a pan for seven minutes without boiling.
What’s even hotter? Drink a hot drink and then go down on her.
5. Get Her Blood Racing with Good Food
Drinks aren’t the only things you can use to spice things up. You can look up recipes that use pepper and ginger.
Ginger will help blood flow into your nether regions. Peppers will warm you all over thanks to its component called capsaicin.
6. Hot Massage Oil Is Your Friend
Her body can grow numb due to the climate. You can make her body ripe for sexual pleasure by using hot massage oil to revive her senses.
You can provide a nice pressure on her muscles while brushing her erogenous zones like the inside of her thighs or the sides of her groin. This should entice her for sex.
7. Bring Out the Warming Lube
The genitals can also feel frigid and dry during cold days. If the frigid temperature bites into her sexual desire, a dab of warming lube can bring sex back on the table.
8. Don’t Spare the Luxury Underwear
Winter clothing will pad the body’s shape and contours, hiding all the sexiness under layers and layers of fabric. Sweatpants can make you look unsexy so invest in luxurious underwear, like velvet briefs or satin boxers.
She’ll be happy you dressed up for her.
9. Winter Sex Is Better with Socks
You can ditch the frumpy room clothes but not the socks if you want her to orgasm.
Professor Gert Holstege and his team at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands took 13 straight couples to a room environment in a lab for a study on the orgasm. The team asked one partner in each pair to lie down with their heads in scanners while their significant others sexed them.
The team logged 80% of the 26 people in their study who failed to achieve orgasm due to cold feet. Sexual satisfaction came when the team had them wear socks.
10. Play with Fire
You know how sexy those love scenes are when film couples do it in front of the fireplace? Well, you can stop wondering and do it on top of a nice rug with your girl right by the flames in a hearth.
If you don’t have the luxury of a fireplace, you can always just surround a nice sleeping bag with aromatic candles and come blissfully together among the lights.
11. Let the Sunshine In
Your testosterone levels can flounder in winter but sunlight can help fix the situation. Just part the curtains and pull the blinds open while taking her from behind by the windows.
Incidentally, making your neighbors jealous can also add up to the things to spice your sex life.
12. Close Quarters, All Heat
You can bundle up with your girl in one sleeping bag and see how creative you two can get in a cramped space. Both of you can just burst out of your cocoon if things start going really wild.
13. Spoon Her
Spooning is really one of the fun sex positions to spice things up during the colder months. You can actually just huddle together for warmth and then just enter her from the underside.
14. Keep It Steamy in the Shower
The bedroom can become staid when you have sex there often but the other areas of your house can be cold if you don’t have central heating. When your bed bores you two, turn on the hot water and have some steamy sex under the nozzle.
15. Make Use of Your Morning Wood
Have sex in a cold morning in case you encounter nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT). Why waste a good boner?
Nocturnal Penile Tumescence Definition: Aka morning wood. This is spontaneous erection happening during sleep or upon waking up.
16. Try Hot Tub Sex
Fill up your tub with hot water and use the nice aromatic salts like lavender to give her a nice, soothing feeling. You can also work up a lather by rubbing your bodies together and then penetrate her while enjoying the bath.
17. Do It on Top of the Washer
If your washing machine runs a hot water wash or uses hot air to dry, you can put her on top of the lid and let the vibrations arouse her. Who knew you can use an oversized household appliance to one of the things to spice up sex.
18. Have Quickies with Your Clothes On
Sometimes, being fully clothed and covered can be a turn-on. When the urge both strikes you, you can always just zip your flies open, lower your underwear, and take it from there.
19. Take Her Away on a Vacation
When you’ve run out of ideas on things to spice up the bedroom, you can always escape the gloom and the cold to find a hotter and more inviting place. The trip will not just be a boon to your sex life, it will also warm up the other parts of your relationship.
Winter weather can numb you and your lady’s senses and lessen your ability to feel the pleasures of the body. Use the cold to your advantage and use these erotic and inventive ways how to spice things in the bedroom this cold season.
Do you have a secret tip on how to spice things up in the bedroom? Share it in the comments section below and enlighten your fellow Alphas.
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